I Love To Do Weddings

I write Wedding Tips to support my couples in having a stress-free wedding. The last paragraph on this Wedding Tip #11 is the important part. Planning a wedding can be overwhelming considering all the various tasks that need to be accomplished. Keeping track of all the details can be quite challenging. It’s easy to forget things because certain tasks happen so far apart and overall, there is so much to be accomplished. One bride reported to me that she had times where she... felt nervous just thinking she might forget something important for the day of the ceremony. An effective tool to thwart this stress is to keep a separate Wedding To Do List from your everyday To Do List. Start by writing down any and all tasks that come to your mind. Even if it’s a task doesn’t have to be done for a while, put it on your list. If it is a large task, break it down into smaller jobs. Prioritize your tasks so you know what needs your immediate attention and what you can leave for a later date. It’s important to keep your lists current and many find it helpful to take five minutes each day to update and organize their Wedding To Do List. Keepings lists can help your mind from feeling as if it is on overload. They will keep your thinking focused and you’ll be better organized. Then you can better direct your thoughts, time and energy more effectively, which will keep you even more productive. A natural result then occurs, which one of my brides claimed: keeping lists always makes me feel better. To give yourself strong positive reinforcement, try this: When you’ve completed something on a list, draw a line through it and write on top of the line the word victory. This may seem a bit odd, but I suggest you give it a chance. You may be surprised how this gives you a sense of ease because you have acknowledged your accomplishments.

Dr. Burns, Thank you for making our special day amazing (and official ). You have been absolutely amazing and helpful this entire time! Brandi & Michael (The NEW Mr. & Mrs. M)

I’m going to love you forever. This little girl received the sweetest declaration of love from her stepdad.