Margaret M. Enloe, Esq.

2021 is hours away and there is an expectation that good things will happen, like the vaccine and an ability to travel again. But, most good things will happen because we did something to make them happen. We will have to get out of our comfort zone, show up, take a bold step, try something new, remain curious and learn from our mistakes. Doing pull-ups may not be your thing but setting some reasonable goals and acting on them will ensure that the New Year is what you want it to be.

The rules of being charismatic, let alone just plain interesting, on a zoom or webex call are not what they used to be when we met in person. Indeed, the rules have shifted dramatically and it's smart to know them! Here's a short read which might help you get the next deal, the next promotion, the next job or the next best insight.

3 Benefits of Volunteering During Retirement http://lnk4u.us/Sy0PJJT

It's Thanksgiving, and, for the first time in 93 years, there won't be a Macy's Day Parade with big colorful balloons and floats stretching block after block to inspire, amaze and entertain us. But, we are all blessed with the POWER to IMAGINE. Nothing - not even Covid-19 - can take that away from us. Enjoy this power. Indeed, take advantage of this power; it has the ability to inspire, amaze and entertain us today and everyday!

5 Tips to a Successful Online Interview http://vlnkx.com/kMr1gaU

Halloween is over and we have 2 months and 1 hour left in 2020. When January 1st comes, we all may jump for joy, but don't count on it. Use your resilience now. It doesn't grow on trees, beautiful as they may be. Resilience is within you to embrace.

With great uncertainties looming in the near and distant future, it's even more important to really listen to your colleagues and loved ones. It sounds easy but, unfortunately, it's not a natural skill. It's time to ramp up and learn how to do it. Now!

Do’s & Don’ts of Working From Home http://vlnkx.com/5lTmf5L

Covid has imposed enormous burdens on millions of people around the world. But, one thing that's easier for many now is attending a far-away wedding via zoom, even while enjoying a walk in the park or a day at the beach with friends. A year ago, this would have been unheard of and unacceptable. What else falls into this silver lining category for you? Share it, if you're willing.

4 Ways to Build a Positive Relationship With Your Boss http://vlnkx.com/8FKtL1d

Particularly during these unprecedented times, our livelihoods and emotional well-being depend on creativity, ingenuity and strategic thinking. Telemedicine replacing distant office visits and restaurants used as gas stations are but two worthy examples.

4 Tips to Prepare for a Presentation at Work http://vlnkx.com/61VZAmL

Resilience can come from planting flowers, creating a dessert, taking an online history course or joining a virtual yoga class. Experiment. A bike ride with three friends, who pedal slowly to enjoy the conversation behind masks, can be just the ticket!

3 Intriguing Hobbies for Retirees http://vlnkx.com/uq2A-9c

5 Steps You Should Take After Getting Laid Off From a Job http://vlnkx.com/7n6rgF9

5 Effective Ways to Handle Competition in the Workplace http://vlnkx.com/XHMREqX

As we celebrate July 4th, we realize that leadership can take many different forms. We can stand by our presidents, or not, because we live in the USA. May our democracy continue to thrive and may our freedoms never be taken for granted.

Is there a bridge that can unite us over this Fourth of July weekend? Probably not. But, being the architects of our own bridges, even if it's to connect with one person over the holiday weekend, could make a big difference in the health of this nation.

A Guide to Life After Furlough http://vlnkx.com/o3wWweq

How to Craft an Impressive Cover Letter http://vlnkx.com/0nhiydG

Why Career Coaches Recommend Grad School http://vlnkx.com/wG34NsB

Confidence is key and, yet, it has gone downhill in the past months for many -- almost like a gangplank dropping into deep water. But, here's a show of confidence which might help you stay upbeat and resilient. w/music by MC Hammer.

How Will You Embrace the New Normal? http://vlnkx.com/G0Wl59W

There are many silver linings arising out of the pandemic - cleaner air, happier dogs, time to clean a closet or two. And, the US is on track to produce more electricity from renewable energy than from coal, a transformation partly driven by the pandemic!

Parking on NYC streets - - something that normally drives people crazy - - is now a silver lining of the pandemic. Enjoy it while you can.

How a Transition Coach Can Help You Manage Life Changes http://mrkt.ms/nezF

What Are the Silver Linings during the Pandemic? http://mrkt.ms/nezw

Is your emotional intelligence worth paying attention to? Definitely. Here are four things you should NOT do in order to improve your EQi. Please pay attention! This is good advice for everyone. @ndwignall

During this era of the Coronavirus, we face new challenges everyday. Hospitals are overcrowded, gyms empty and people are isolated. Being wise, creative and resilient is a must. Just finding a new venue for exercise can make an important difference.

It's never been more critical to exercise good judgment than during this era of the #Coronavirus. What can we learn from leaders? What can leaders learn from others? Read my blog on @ardencoaching https://bit.ly/GoodJudgmentandtheVirus.

Should You Retire Early? http://vlnkx.com/wf0n-un

Forming Healthy Habits http://vlnkx.com/jLBvcZb

Growth as human beings comes from trying new things and getting out of our default patterns of behavior. We don't have to leap into the abyss on a hang glider. But, with grit, we must push ourselves out of our comfort zone and stay curious on the journey.

Sometimes you think you know something - like the average size fish you can catch in Central Park - and sometimes you're wrong and blown away. Check out the size of this fish! Amazing? It reminds me not to make assumptions of things or people!

4 Tips for Coping With a Difficult Supervisor http://vlnkx.com/vT8X89j

Even if you live in a country with a national policy allowing dads to take paid time off work to care for newborns, not all dads take advantage of it. But, sometimes, someone gets out of their comfort zone, does something daring and changes the reluctant landscape.

Many speak about the importance of listening - to others, not music or podcasts! Is it a lost art? As Kate Murphy explains, "the reward of good listening will almost certainly be more interesting conversations." Try it for a week and see what happens.

Some people are career coaches. Some are life coaches or executive coaches. Then there is a category I just learned of - - a plant coach. If you like indoor plants but don't have a green thumb, that coach might be for you.

When Should You Retire? http://vlnkx.com/4w3qNw7

3 Tips for Handling Work-Related Stress http://vlnkx.com/-Y4IYSu

Should your mom be your coach? For Mikaela Shiffrin, an Olympic gold medalist, it worked really well for 7 years. But even she has transitioned to another coach. For most situations, your mom should be mom and your coach should be someone else!

If You're Lazy, Don't Retire! http://vlnkx.com/ipvr683

Should your mother be your coach? Usually not. But it can work for some, as it did for many years for top skier, Mikaela Shiffrin.

Spotted in the NYC subway station - - a perfectly good shoe - - lost forever or only temporarily? If you're feeling lost as you enter this Holiday Season, maybe you should speak to a coach to figure out what's going on and what you can do about it. Now!

Here is one of my favorite quotes around creating goals and taking action: "If you don't know where you are going, you'll end up someplace else." - Yogi Berra

Katy Perry Hires a Coach! http://vlnkx.com/VMvCqks

If you hate getting up early, especially on cold winter mornings, rest assured that the super-rich get up early too. Tim Cook, the CEO of Apple, gets up at 3:45 am! So, while money is always nice, it can be terribly addictive and lead to some bad habits.

Are you setting aside "alone time" for recharging and reflecting? If not, it pays to give it a try. "There are benefits to spending time alone" points out Micaela Marini Higgs in her article (http://bit.ly/timealonebenefits) and "all you need is yourself."

Career Failures Can Lead to Success http://vlnkx.com/6HPNdJL

3 Strategies to Ask Your Boss for a Raise http://vlnkx.com/fbKcf8p

4 Ways to Stop Negative Thinking http://vlnkx.com/x7xNI5g

10 Things You Cannot Control http://vlnkx.com/Ab5Hx7G

We Mere Mortals at the U.S.Open http://vlnkx.com/HPTVUW7

The U.S. Open is about to Fire Up! http://vlnkx.com/OnF6saA

4 Ways to Manage a Disrespectful Employee http://vlnkx.com/VQMlBLO

3 Tips for Leaving a Job in Good Standing http://vlnkx.com/-O_tU3f

5 Practical Benefits of Hiring a Career Coach https://vlnkx.co/2W4tGwT

3 Tips for Making a Midlife Career Change https://vlnkx.co/2Hh4mQf

5 Tips That Make Transitioning From a Career to "Retirement" Easier https://vlnkx.co/2ZV9Uas

Behind the Scenes https://vlnkx.co/2VSjqbN

3 Signs It's Time to Change Careers https://vlnkx.co/2HLi533

Do I Have to Retire? https://vlnkx.co/2BMP8zs

Retirement at 33?! https://vlnk.io/2SkSpQz

3 Tips for Planning the Next Chapter After Retirement https://vlnk.io/2B4HP5B

Are You Up for the Job? https://vlnk.io/2AqTeMO